Keys to Building Self Confidence

Mar 28, 2010 by MJ Schrader

Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.

~ Marianne Williamson ~

Keys to Building Self Confidence

Unfortunately the only who can change your self esteem and self confidence is you. Fortunately you are the best person for the job. Building your self confidence is a process that requires some changes in what you do and say, but you are worth it.

Do you refuse compliments?

If you do, STOP. When someone says something nice about you, you are disrespecting them and you by dismissing it. You should respect what they say. Accept the compliment. Do not turn it around. Do not say how little you did. Then with sincerity simply say, “Thank you.” This is a vital key in building self confidence.

What can you change?

Realize what you can change and what you can not. You can not make yourself taller, but you can decide you are ok with your height. You may never know 20 languages, but you can learn hello in 20 languages. Accept yourself for who you are.

Are your friends positive?

If all your friends are negative and they find ways to be negative, then unfortunately this will reflect on your life and views. Negative people have a way of attacking people. They also complain when anyone succeeds. If you are building your self confidence, they will not be supportive. Be sure to surround yourself with positive people who will support you on your journey.  ~MJ Schrader

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Your natural state is always to be growing and blooming like a flower. A rose bud is no less pretty than one in full bloom. Remember to recognize your beauty in every state of your unfolding… ~ The Divine